We called our midwife, Jessica, at 6pm and were told to keep an eye on things for two hours and call her if things progressed. We then decided to watch our favourite movie, 'The Big Lebowski'. At 845pm Jessica called back and said she was coming over. She checked and Julia was 6cm dilated and that we were going to have a baby in the early morning!
I got the pool all ready while Jessica got all her stuff ready. Julia continued to labour very well in the tub. We actually had to boil water to fill the birthing pool because we had used so much hot water already while she was in the bathtub. Once the birthing pool was ready, Julia got in and her contraction pains started getting easier.
First-stage labour lasted until 2am. Julia had been zoned into her contractions and dealt very well with them. She began to push in the pool but had a tough time focusing her energy properly. The midwife then had us move Julia onto the toilet where she pushed for about 15 minutes. After an unsuccessful trial of side pushing in the pool again, Jessica went out to her car and brought in a birthing stool for Julia to try.
Julia began pushing well on the stool and after 30 minutes more, at 410am, our baby was delivered! We were so overjoyed that it was over a minute before Jessica asked us whether or not we wished to check the gender. We were so surprised that it was a girl! We had been certain the entire pregnancy that it would be a boy but what did we know. I cut the cord after 5-10 minutes of celebrating. I am so proud of my wife for achieving what we had set out to do, deliver a healthy baby, naturally, at our home. She was extremely determined and focused throughout the night and I am so thankful she was able to experience what a natural childbirth is like. She was so high off of the endorphins and oxytocin for the next couple of hours, I had to laugh!
We named our daughter Callypso Catherine Keil, we call her Cally. She has been nothing but happy and healthy for these first couple of days. She has began to breastfeed well after a few days of practice. Julia has been unbelievably patient and determined for Cally and her to team up properly to breastfeed. It is really beginning to pay off, now that Julia's breastmilk has come in today.
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| Callypso Catherine Keil |
